Keep this number handy! It may save a life.
Dan Hettinger • September 30, 2023

You don't need to be the expert.

But you need to know how to reach the expert quickly.

There is no room for error when we are caring for someone, or friends and family or someone who is a suicide risk. We should not pretend to be the expert in these dangerous caring situations. So, here are a few resources that put us in touch with the experts.


"We can all help prevent suicide.

Every year mental health organizations and individuals across the U.S. and around the world work together to raise awareness of suicide prevention during
September, National Suicide Prevention Month.

Understanding the issues concerning suicide and mental health is an important way to take part in suicide prevention, help others in crisis, and change the conversation around suicide.

Visit  988lifeline.org for more information on how you can prevent suicide or to speak to someone for emotional support 24/7.  (also: https://carenotes.com/product-category/grief-loss/suicide/, https://nami.org/Your-Journey/Frontline-Professionals/Suicide-Prevention).


Call or Text 988 for help.


The 
Lifeline provides 24/7, free and confidential support for people in distress, prevention and crisis resources for you or your loved ones, and best practices for professionals in the United States. If you’re thinking about suicide or are worried about a loved one, call or text 988 today."


And, don't be afraid to call 911. Most police departments have Crisis Intervention officers. They know what to do!


Your care matters. You care for those in crisis. Often your care brings comfort. Sometimes it saves a life.

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